1. First you should know who you are and where you belong, this takes time, don't push yourself into being someone you're not, instead take time to get to know yourself. Spend some time with yourself.
2. Speak openly about your tastes, music, fashion, boys, girls, whatever, don't hide behind other people's views. If you are respecting someone that does not mean you are agreeing. Try to speak what is on your mind and make people understand what you want to say.
3. Try to find a hobby or interest that you enjoy and are good at,it builds self esteem and gives you stuff to talk about. You can find new friends of your same interest. Indulge yourself at things you like doing.
4. Establish your own doctrine and walk into it. Don't compromise your morals for anything or anyone. Make a list of things that makes you "You". Be yourself!
5. Try to build your self esteem by pushing your comfort zones,you'll never grow out of shy if you put yourself in a shell. Do things that you think makes you feel uncomfortable. It can be anything unusual. It can be walking alone in the streets, talking to a stranger etc.
6. Learn how to accept critics and how to face them. If someone bitches behind your back, ignore it unless it's really serious, people will always dig into people they don't understand or are jealous of, it's natural. Just feel pleased you're mature enough for it not to bother you. And remember one thing people will never remember you for the good things you have done,they will criticise you for the one wrong thing you did!
7. Be yourself! Love the way how you are and who you are. Don't think what people will think about how your look, what your complexion is or what is your body type.
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